Wings and Old Friends
Monday
May 12, 2008
Finding a cool wing can be tough. The truth is, there is no quick fix to your wing problem. However, until you do find a decent wing realize that going out alone isn’t as bad you think it is. If anyone asks where your friends are just say, “They’re here somewhere.” They usually don’t even ask.
It’s usually better to go out alone then try to find a wing in your close social circle unless you super-trust them. Every time you go out they will be like, “Let’s see it man. I thought you read that shit. I thought you said it worked? Why do you ask them those fucked up questions about your friends ex girlfriend? That’s stupid.”
There’s nothing wrong with going out with your social circle and gaming without telling your friends what you’re doing (you know, reading about it on the internet…) I actually like the guys I hang with and they give me some social proof, and if I’m not running game, hanging with them is genuinely fun. Having people you can genuinely have fun with is ten times more powerful for your game than having a guy who is willing to go open sets
The only good thing about having a wing is if he is a motivated motherfucker who will hold you accountable and make you go out. A guy who won’t let you pussy out and say you are tired or this bar is dead or whatever excuse we often make.
Rock Your World One Day At A Time
Don’t think that now you know game you need to ditch your friends who don’t know game. If you have a great set of friends who are supportive, deeply care about you, and who make your quality of life better, than why would you cut them out of your life just because they have no game? It makes no sense.
What you may find though is as you evolve, create better boundaries in your life, create a better personality, and stop accepting low class behavior from others, your paradigm on life changes drastically. You start to notice friends that treat you poorly. Before you just accepted it and were glad to have friends in your life.
As you meet cooler and cooler people you will outgrow people who remain stagnant in their life and resent you for your new found success. Don’t be mad at them and don’t assume that you are better than them. You have merely acquired a skill set that helped you grow as a person.
Some of your old friends will love the new you and would love you no matter what (keep those guys). Some guys will laugh at you as you grow, say toxic shit that makes you feel insecure, and do everything in their power to keep you just where you were. It makes them feel horribly uncomfortable to see you change for the better.
As your skill grows, you will laugh at bad behavior from men and women. It won’t sting as much as it once did. You will live in more of an abundance frame and realize that you are no longer the old guy who would just be friends with anyone.
With new friendships you develop walk in with the idea that you are going to offer value and respect and that is the minimum you expect back. Having standards is extremely powerful and will serve you better in the long run. It will ensure that your relationships are win/win. There is no consolation prize for being loyal to someone who treats you like shit. All that is really happening is you are retarding your potential and growth with every second you spend in their presence. Be true and loyal to yourself before you try to be true and loyal to another.
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