Ever just know that a woman is into you? To the point where you know you can sleep with her if you play your cards right? And ever just fuck up at some point, crash and burn?
What happened, is that you didn’t respect The Power Play. What is a Power Play? It’s when a woman is at a heightened emotion state, whether it be really happy, sad, mad, sexual, or whatever. Or when there is a general window of opportunity (i.e. the two of you are alone by coincidence).
When she is in this heightened emotional or coincidental state, is the point when she is most likely to leave or sleep with you.
Many men miss out on this opportunity, because they simply don’t understand its importance, and ignore it until it’s too late. The point when she goes back into a neutral state of mind.
Jeepers Creepers: “I like Gummi Bears! I have four different colored Gummi Bears. Choose one and I’ll tell you a secret about yourself. There’s a red one, a blue one…”
Sigh. At least he’s catching on to commonalities. Why don’t I like bouncing around? I have found that in many of my one-night stands, by initiating a Power Play, there was no need for me to go anywhere other than a place to have sex.
And when you bounce around, you allow for numerous interruptions to occur. She could grow tired, a friend could call, she could get sick, etc. In short, bouncing around does not work to your advantage.
Now, let’s move on to the types of Power Plays. And remember, we do not wait until the end of the night, we initiate a Power Play when she is at a heightened emotional state, whether it’s at the end of the night or not.
The Verbal Power Play
The Verbal Power Play is the Power Play you use to go to the place where you’re going to have sex. Now, if you’ve been following this guide, then you have commonalities that you’ve been focusing on.
Let’s look at an example of a Verbal Power Play in which our connection is that we both have a dog:
Assanova: “Yeah, my dog is crazy! He likes to run into walls, I swear! I have no clue why he does it!”
Girl: “Hahahaha! That’s funny!”
Assanova: “He’s so retarded! Let’s go visit him and
see if he does it!”
Girl: “Ok! Let me tell my friends that I’m leaving.”
Three things in this. One, I’m not waiting until the end of the night. I’m leaving while she is at an emotional high. Two, I’m controlling her emotional state by making it sound exciting. And three, it’s a legit excuse for her to leave with me. Thus, she does not look slutty.
Now let’s look at the opposite end of the spectrum:
Girl: “This bar is really dull. I’m getting bored.”
Assanova: “Yeah, it is boring. I wanna see those pictures of you with Peewee Herman that you keep talking about. Let’s go check them out.”
Girl: “You’re going to feel so stupid when you see that I wasn’t lying.”
Assanova: “Yeah, we’ll see.”
Again, she doesn’t look slutty. And again, I’m using the topic of our connection as the reason to leave. She is at a saddened emotional state and I’m acting on it. If she becomes neutral again, she might want to stay at the bar, so that’s the reasoning for acting quickly.
In one instance, that actually happened. I left with a girl from a party within ten minutes. The interaction went something like this. I walk into a room upstairs:
Girl: “You look like you smoke weed!”
Assanova: “Yup. Wanna go smoke a blunt at my place?”
Girl: “Yeah.”
She spent most of the time telling her friends that she was leaving. Our actual interaction was that fast. How do I know this? I came with a group of friends, and before all of them even made their way inside of the house, I was walking out with this girl. I didn’t wait around; I took advantage of her heightened emotional state.
One crucial part of the Power Play is that you must act as if it’s perfectly normal. If you seem too eager, she will instantly back out. However, if it seems like normal behavior from you, she will have no problem leaving with you.
And most importantly, you must assume that she will say yes. When some men leave with women, they’ll actually fuck up their own game by doubting themselves.
For instance, instead of going to the bedroom and just going with the flow, they’ll say something dumb like:
Jeepers Creepers: “I’m going to spend the night. Where’s your bed at?”
Girl: “Umm, you’re not staying here. My roommates will be home soon.”
At least he made it this far. However, he’d probably be fucking her right now if he would have just shut up, and took things one step at a time.
The Physical Power Play
I was asked about “kino” or when to touch a woman. My answer? I don’t touch her until she touches me. But what happens if she doesn’t touch me? What now?
This is no different than the Verbal Power Play. If I catch her at a heightened emotional state, I go in. This has happened several times at bars. Guys kept asking me how I was making out with women so fast, because they couldn’t figure it out. An example might go like this:
Assanova: “I wanna kiss you.”
Her emotional state is obviously that of shock, and I go in for the kiss. In essence, it was a matter of shocking her first, heightening her emotional state. Had I just walked up to her, grabbed her, and tried to kiss her, she would have pulled away her face before I even got close.
It’s ‘place her in the heightened emotional state, and then proceed’, not the other way around. Remember that. The same goes for when you’re in the bedroom.
Most of my one-night stands go a little something like this, in the place where sex will take place:
1) Focus on our commonalities.
2) Slow down the speed of my voice, thus placing her in a heightened sexual state.
3) And since I am the dominant personality, she subconsciously matches my sexual state by lowering and slowing down her voice.
4) I kiss her. We fuck.
I’m not going to cover last minute resistance, because if you’ve been following this guide, it shouldn’t happen. The solution is to just back off. If nothing is seriously wrong, then she’ll come after you.
Jeepers Creepers: “You mean I can get laid without the
use of painfully memorizing routines from my routine
book?”
Yes, Jeepers Creepers, it really is that simple.
