One of the most frustrating things about being down in Australia was how the women seem to ask these polite questions, such as “Where are you from?” - but they’re just being polite, rather than showing interest, like it would indicate in the US.
To deal with this, Captain Jack and I decided to start framing those questions as mundane and boring early on, so we don’t have to disappear down ‘question ladders’ that don’t lead to comfort. We’ve been saying something like:
“You know, I like Australian girls, but it seems like they just ask a bunch of superficial questions. And it’s not that I want to avoid those, it’s just that that’s not the way I like to get to know people. I think there are like three different levels people get to know each other at, but if you just stick to the surface level, you’ll know people, but never actually get to really know them”
It’s been working wonders. So much so that it got us thinking about using more framing, and in more situations.
Something I noticed a while ago, and have been teaching for a while, is: women have much more pliable frames than guys. If you treat a woman like she’s your girlfriend, she’ll act like that. If you treat her like you’re courting her, she’ll hold off before having sex with you. If you treat her like she’s looking to get fucked in the ass in the bathroom … she’ll often act in to that frame too.
We’ve been experimenting with setting sexual frames as early on as possible - framing everything girls do as trying to get us in to bed. The last few nights, I’ve had EVERY girl agree and act accordingly … so there are definitely some interesting results to be had.
Future has a concept he calls prepping, and it’s generally used in phone and text game. You prep a girl to your physical advances so you don’t have those weird moments of awkwardness when you don’t know how expectant of kino she’s going to be. So you can prep by saying something like: “I’m going to try and kiss you” before you kiss her, and there’s no shocking or awkward moment when you actually do. When I got laid a couple of nights ago here, I prepped the girl by telling her I was trying to get in her pants.
My internal pickup simulator (and a fair amount of experience now) tells me that the combination of prepping and framing along with a jealousy plotline is the best and most effective way to get same night lays.
Captain Jack and I are probably the best guys out there at same night lays at the moment, and we’re both convinced this new system of pumping buying temperature while framing her as overtly sexual, and then doing a take-away at the highest possible buying tempreature, and introducing a passive jealousy plotline, and then returning and prepping her for escalation seems to be the new best model for same night lays.
