I get a lot of email from guys who are successful in lots of areas of their life, but want to improve the success they have with women. Most of them ask me if I’ll recommend any products to them.
Normally I recommend they buy the absolutely essential Double Your Dating, and go on a workshop with Love Systems. The two market leaders, and both have a 100% refund guarantee - what more could you want?
But I started thinking: what have I read and what would I recommend that isn’t all that well-known in the community? What products helped me the most that I haven’t heard people talking about that much, and that I’ve not had people email me asking for my thoughts on?
So what follows is my list of products that have blown me away, my experiences with them, and with the authors who created them …
Conversation Hypnosis
http://www.conversational-hypnosis.com/
Igor’s one of two guys who I keep bumping in to unexpectedly in real life, and who I’m always consistently impressed by when I do. He’s exceptionally bright, always friendly, and has a way of talking that just sucks you in - something you’d expect, I guess, considering he’s a world-renowned hypnotist whose books appear on most Required Reading lists for hypnosis courses.
As a result, I was expecting to be pleasantly surprised by his course. The website promised a lot, but most marketing websites do, right? When it came, and I got a chance to listen to it, I was completely blown away. I’m still working on applying all the principles in it, but I started noticing results in how people interacted with me the next day.
Don’t get me wrong: you’re not going to instantly learn how to hypnotise Jessica Alba in to bed. But you will learn how to very effectively persuade people you meet, and suck them in to your own reality. Highly recommended!
High Status Male
http://www.highstatusmale.com/
I was VERY LUCKY in my opinion to get a personal recommendation on this product. Why? Because his website sucks ass. If I hadn’t had my wing almost compel me to part with my cash (by talking non-stop about the ebook), there’s not a chance in hell I would have done.
The website looks like it was sucked from some 1998 Internet Revival Archive, the models he uses to sell his book are NOT the kind of women I’m looking to meet, and frankly, he looks like a gnome (sorry Mike!)
The book is absolutely gold though. The inner-game concepts in it are fantastic, the way he talks about embracing your masculinity and ridding yourself of shame - it’s one of the few products that I come back to time and time again, and every time I learn something new or see a new layer in there.
The Way of The Superior Man
Real Social Dynamics have a way of getting very very excited about books. They’ll go through periods where it doesn’t matter which of their instructors I’m talking to, they’ll keep talking about the same book. In fairness: the books tend to be awesome.
David Deida’s Way of The Superior Man was one of these, and I’m glad it was. The book is, as far as I’m concerned, the Bible of Masculinity. I know several people who’ve said it’s made them cry just reading it, and I know it’s had a profound effect on my relationships with the women in my life.
It talks about your responsibilities as a man, both to women and yourself. It’s profound, entertaining, and easy to read. Even the small number of women I lent my copy to were amazed by it, and all came away saying that they’d never met anyone who understood women as well as the author. Steal the money to buy it with if you have to.
Same Night Lays
http://www.themysterymethod.com/
I’ve been very very fortunate to spend a bunch of time with Sinn recently, and see him in action in the field. I’m always blown away watching him game, and I’ve worked with all of your internet heros at one point…
Sinn and Captain Jack’s Same Night Lay’s seminar is off the dial. It’s content I’ve not read or seen anywhere else expressed intelligently, clearly, and in a way that you can use that evening. Everyone I sat in the seminar with in London came away saying it was some of the best money they’ve ever spent.
The bad news? It can be pretty damn difficult to get a space. Not only do places sell out pretty quickly, but I know Sinn’s working his ass off on a bunch of other things at the moment, and just doesn’t have time to do the programs to meet the demand. At the time of writing, there’s only one Same Night Lays seminar up on the program over at The Mystery Method website.
January 31st, 2008 at 6:43 pm
WOTSM is one of my favourites as well.
I’ll have to pick up HSM… i keep hearing about it.
June 11th, 2008 at 7:51 pm
Great Post. I personally have Conversational Hypnosis which I think is absolutely incredible. The ultimate program on rapport, awareness, and the ability to hold conversations with ease, while leading, persuading, or making other people do what is in your interest. Simply, if you apply these skills, you will be a people magnet. “I like this guy but I just don’t know why”.
The Way of the Superior Man is also excellent.