Comments on: The Truth about Cheating and Women

By: Natalia

Natalia — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 00:21:34 +0000

I think you’re right that women tend to follow their emotions and want to learn about themselves, and that often leads to cheating.

But sometimes, I just look at other women and wonder “So HAVE YOU learned anything about yourself yet??”

If a women who is “searching for herself” through cheating, just KEEPS cheating and cheating and cheating — then obviously she hasn’t “found herself” yet. There is something to be said about E.Q. (Emotional Quotient) and some people, men and women, just aren’t that “bright” emotionally (emotional bimbos if you will). NEVER get into a relationship with someone who has no clue “who they are” inside.

Personally, I can attest to the fact that emotion is the main drive behind women cheating, not because I’ve cheated, but because I’ve had lustful thoughts about guys that I PERCEIVE to be better men than the one I’m with now. The reason I don’t give in is because I’m smart enough to NOTICE that I only think about other guys when things are shitty between me and my man. When we’re under stress economically, or we’re having a disagreement, and I feel *emotionally slighted*, that’s when I start looking for a daydream to temper the pain.

A TRULY intelligent women knows herself well enough to NOTICE these kinds of things about herself, and doesn’t have to “test” out her emotions (destroying relationships in the process) just to “see what happens” or see how she feels about herself afterward.

So to me, it’s largely a question of maturity and conscience. I know you have a lot of success with women, but that’s not the group you should be focusing on. Think of the women who *reject you*, those are the ones you can trust, and the question becomes, are you the kind of man *they* could trust?

My final piece of advice, if one day you find that you do want to settle down with just one woman, find a woman who is smarter than her emotions and who honors ALL the different relationships in her life (a good friend, good daughter, good mother, good boss, good co-worker = is a well rounded person who is likely to honor her romantic relationships as well.)

By: mike simms

mike simms — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 07:01:41 +0000

oooh, chris you’re so hard, I’m scurrred.

By: mony

mony — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 11:58:55 +0000

Women run with their emotions alot no doubt about it. Not all women are emotionally driven sluts though. I haven’t done too badly with the opposite sex and have learnt that men aren’t the only ones that can cheat. Women and in my experience usually the succesfull, sexy ones cheat just as much as anyone else. Personally to me its got nothing to do with love if your partner will cheat. I know girls and guys who adore their partners but have done it. I think it comes down to their past its hard for leopards to change their spots and if your bangin her behind her husbands back while the poor bastards on a road trip then what would she do to you when things go stale?. The maturity to choose also because if you find an irrational person especially a women who does operate on the hormones then she will be more likely to bang the milkman because at the moment she feels emotional void or unwanted by her man and needs to fill that space like the author said (she will just rationalize it later). But don’t feel to bad fellas although there is plenty of cheating whores, who we wished where our gym teachers in high school there are loyal women too. Just like my wife to be or at least she tells me so ha ha ha.

By: chris

chris — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 01:05:53 +0000

Evolution at work?
You might want to watch your back if you’re going around fucking somebody’s wife. Otherwise, another human evolutionary trait will make itself known to you………murder or a good ass whoopin.
And don’t think you’re the slickest cock on the block.
I personally know somebody who was murdered for fucking some guy’s wife…….my brother in law…..while he was cheating on my sister.

By: EDGAR

EDGAR — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 07:23:52 +0000

I’m not saying that I completely believe in astrology, but I have experienced some coincidences with it that I can not explain away.

By: hern

hern — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 20:30:20 +0000

Be the change you wish to see in the world. (Mahatma Ghandi)

If you want to find a loyal honest partner, look at yourself first and recognize your own ugliness, look at all the lies you are telling to yourself and to others. Look at your validation-seeking behavior, your fears, your (self-)hatred, your sorrow, your pride. Let all of this go, step by step. Love/Self-Love is the only truth. Love without condition, the rest is only absence of it.
Love is wisdom, Wisdom is love.

Imagine picking up a girl that really loves herself like you do, is game really needed? When 2 honest people come together they will figure it all out, the conversation, the relationship, the sex and so on.

By the way, over 85 % of the human population, are not able to behave with integrity and be loyal and honest. I’m one of them but I’m on the way.
Seeing my own ugliness and letting it go.

By: Challneging Challenger

Challneging Challenger — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 14:05:03 +0000

@Challenger,
Your wrong, at least for my part; I have never, not once, ever cheated. I never will. A deals a deal, whether its horse trading or relationships; if I say I will do a thing, then thats what I do. My experience with women is exactly as the author states; they will do as they wish, and justify it later. If I could be a homo, I’d bat for the other team, unfortunately nothing about the male physic turns me on, so I’m stuck with ho’s.

By: Irratated

Irratated — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 14:01:01 +0000

This is a sad but true article.
Women are like heroin, always leaving you wanting more, and always offering the killer high to the new guy.

By: corina

corina — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 18:39:16 +0000

Men might turn gay after reading this!
Maybe try to find a nice christian woman…

By: RogerRabbit

RogerRabbit — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 19:03:50 +0000

I think you attract into your life what you protect. If you think all women are lying cheating whores then that’s what you’ll get. If you believe that there are girls out ther that will love you unconditionally then you’ll attract that into your life instead.

By: Hansel

Hansel — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 19:00:28 +0000

Nah.. it’s just returning to the way things have been for thousands of years.

Life long monogamy is abnormal for our species.

By: Challenger

Challenger — Wed, 30 Jan 2008 18:16:47 +0000

Well. I must say i partially disagree.
You are talking about the nature of women. I totally agree about it. You opened my eyes.
But the men you are talking about, the loyal ones, are just acting the same way any (almost-)loyal women do : They simply try to run away from temptation.
Guess what ? It is far more easy to run away from temptation for men : Just don’t move, it’s going to be fine. Temptation equals work, sometimes you even can be hurt in your self esteem.
If a hot chick stay in the street, I might go to talk to her. She will have to act, to say : “No”.
Actually, I think men are not better than women. I think men are driven by pulsions like Lust, agressivity and fear. Did you heard about politicals who act like lustfull teenagers when they have the option ? Do you know why they are acting like that ? Just because they can. Because hot women offers themselves to them.
My English is not that perfect. It is not my natural language. Hope you can understand my (short) development

By: John

John — Tue, 29 Jan 2008 09:49:36 +0000

Wow, depressing article.