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The Truth about Cheating and Women

Posted on 29 January 2008

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I first read this article a few years ago. Let me preface it by saying: at the time, while I was still learning how to meet women, it seemed like world-shattering gospel truth.

Having improved dramatically, having learned a lot more about women, I’m in a place to better evaluate it. Some of the points he makes are compelling - women are largely more driven by their emotions than men. Women are considerably better at rationalizing away behaviours than men. And my female friends do seem to have a much, much higher propensity to cheat than my male ones, and then invent reasons why “it didn’t count”.

On the other hand, this is far from true of all women, and the original author seems awfully bitter. What I will say is: you can’t gauge fidelity from what a girl is like. Some of the most faithful girls I’ve known have been some of the most hedonistic and sexual, where some of the least have seemed prudish and dull to most.

I grew up watching Disney movies. I used to believe in true romance and “true love will always prevail”. I was looking for a woman to be my equal, to be my partner. I wanted to find that one true love, and for us to be commited to each other forever. Most of all, I believed women wanted the same thing.

Now I know the truth - these things were only possible when society was able to enforce it. Now that women are ‘liberated’ (and thus at the mercy of their own emotional urges and more base instincts), this is an impossible fairytale.

I don’t consider myself a misogynist - I love women. But I am a sexist - I believe women are vastly different from men, and by the standards that men hold other men to, women are inferior too.

Perhaps you’re starting to rationalize at this point. I must be a bitter loser, right? I can’t prove it to you either way, but I enjoy more success with women than almost anyone I know. I’ve slept with over 200 women, and right now, I’m regularly seeing 5 different normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking professional women.

Am I really good looking? No. My looks are pretty average. I don’t work out (although I’m not overweight), I don’t dress that well. And I didn’t have much success with women at all when I was younger. Then I decided to go out and start trying to meet women. I was willing to face rejection 1,000 times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything I could until I finally cracked it.

I completely set my ego aside. I didn’t get laid at all for the first few months. Then it started happening every few weeks. Then pretty often. Then all the time! I wouldn’t have thought this possible in high school.

Now I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can usually pick her up in front of her friends. Women will even slip me phone numbers when their boyfriend has gone to take a leak. I can meet women in the street or at the supermarket, and often have them back at mine for sex in 30 minutes. If I have to settle for a phone number, and meet her a few days later, I will fuck her that next day.

Here’s where it gets more interesting: what I do doesn’t change in the slightest if she’s single or not. If she has a boyfriend or not. Hell, if she has a husband or not. I just do my normal routine, and then I fuck her. Maybe she’ll mention the guy so she won’t feel guilty when we have sex - that was it’s ‘my fault’. Most of the time though, they just won’t mention it until after sex. Perhaps her phone will go off, and it’s her boyfriend; she’ll give him some bullshit story about where she is without the slightest trace of guilt.

The only factor that determines if a girl will cheat on her man with me, is my own skill level. When my skills were pretty poor, I used to get shut down all the time. Once I got good, pretty much anyone’s wife or girlfriend were within reach.

The sweetest, most innocent girls you’ve ever laid eyes on will cheat at the drop of a hat. The one thing that most men are looking for - loyalty - just isn’t there with women. “Honour”, “word is bond” - these ideas just don’t have the same impact for women. Why? Women are emotionally driven - if they feel it, they do it - end of story. And later, they rationalize it to themselves.

Nothing is more important, or compelling, to a woman than:

  • The way she feels
  • Learning more about her inner self and having emotional realizations

That’s why even the most intelligent women love astrology, chick flicks, crappy daytime TV, stupid quizzes in magazines that reveal “Which character from Friends you’re most like”.

Men are far from perfect, and far be it from me to suggest they are. All I’m trying to say is that I’ve spent a lot of time with women, and I know how they are. It feels like I took the Red Pill in the Matrix - sometimes I’d rather not know. How can I ever get married now? How could I be the chump who pays for everything and goes through life not worrying because he ‘trusts’ his woman?

Would you leave your dog alone with a steak? Of course not. But you can’t hate the dog for doing what’s in its nature. You can’t trust a dog. But you can trust a dog to be a dog.

Some men are disloyal, but: I could never trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad Presidents, but I could never vote for a woman to be President - can you really expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment? She’ll just rationalize it later.

Did you know that the median 23 year old chick has had three times as many sexual partners as the average 23 year old guy? How’s that possible? If a woman’s getting laid, surely a man is too?

But most men hardly ever get laid. And when they do, they ‘got lucky’. But there’s a small group of guys who get laid all the time, and sleep with many many women. It’s evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men who spike those emotions - they want the top man, so the top man fucks lots of women.

The irony? Sexual revolution, feminism, etc, has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their emotions are volunteering for the modern equivalent of harems. Lucky me, eh?

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7 Comments For This Post

  1. John says:

    Wow, depressing article.

  2. Challenger says:

    Well. I must say i partially disagree.
    You are talking about the nature of women. I totally agree about it. You opened my eyes.
    But the men you are talking about, the loyal ones, are just acting the same way any (almost-)loyal women do : They simply try to run away from temptation.
    Guess what ? It is far more easy to run away from temptation for men : Just don’t move, it’s going to be fine. Temptation equals work, sometimes you even can be hurt in your self esteem.
    If a hot chick stay in the street, I might go to talk to her. She will have to act, to say : “No”.
    Actually, I think men are not better than women. I think men are driven by pulsions like Lust, agressivity and fear. Did you heard about politicals who act like lustfull teenagers when they have the option ? Do you know why they are acting like that ? Just because they can. Because hot women offers themselves to them.
    My English is not that perfect. It is not my natural language. Hope you can understand my (short) development

  3. Hansel says:

    Nah.. it’s just returning to the way things have been for thousands of years.

    Life long monogamy is abnormal for our species.

  4. RogerRabbit says:

    I think you attract into your life what you protect. If you think all women are lying cheating whores then that’s what you’ll get. If you believe that there are girls out ther that will love you unconditionally then you’ll attract that into your life instead.

  5. corina says:

    Men might turn gay after reading this!
    Maybe try to find a nice christian woman…

  6. Irratated says:

    This is a sad but true article.
    Women are like heroin, always leaving you wanting more, and always offering the killer high to the new guy.

  7. Challneging Challenger says:

    @Challenger,
    Your wrong, at least for my part; I have never, not once, ever cheated. I never will. A deals a deal, whether its horse trading or relationships; if I say I will do a thing, then thats what I do. My experience with women is exactly as the author states; they will do as they wish, and justify it later. If I could be a homo, I’d bat for the other team, unfortunately nothing about the male physic turns me on, so I’m stuck with ho’s.

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