The Best Place To Meet Women Is ‘On line’
Thursday
Oct 22, 2009
The best place to meet women is on line. No, not online on match.com or on Yahoo! Personals . . . but rather while you’re waiting on a line.
We spend so much of our lives waiting on a line. We’re waiting for coffee. We’re waiting at the bank. We’re waiting at the grocery store. We’re always waiting on a line . . . sometimes for one minute and sometimes for two hours.
Do you talk to people while you’re waiting on a line? If the answer is no, then read on because what I’m about to tell you is one of the best time management tools you will ever learn.
As a matter of fact, Microsoft Outlook was thinking of adding this tool to their software for Blackberries. Alright maybe not . . . but you get my point.
The other night I was out with a large group of students doing a Bootcamp. We walked by this trendy Hollyweird nightclub. I looked at the line waiting to get in, and I asked my students:
DW: “What do you notice about what people are doing in that line . . .besides looking pissed off that they have to wait?”
S1: “No one is talking to each other.”
DW: “Exactly! No one is talking to each other while waiting on line to get into a bar or nightclub . . . waiting to get into a loud, crowded, place so they can potentially scream in each other’s ears.”
The best conversations you’re going to have are when you’re waiting on line to get into the bar. They will be far better than any you’ll have while you’re inside the bar.
To prove my point, we got on line there and we proceeded to have a conversation with the group in front of us and the group behind us. When it was time to enter the club, the doorman asked me how many we were, and I said that we were seven but that we wanted to wait on line for awhile before going inside.
As each group behind us got to where we were at the front of the line, we met a whole new group of people. By the time we left that line about twenty minutes later, we’d met and spoken with about forty people! In light of this, let me ask you a few questions:
· How many of you speak to forty people when you’re IN a nightclub?
· How many of you get phone numbers when you’re IN the nightclub?
· How many of you get people to text you as soon as they leave a nightclub to see where you’re hanging out and what line is cool right now?
These are just some of the things that happened to my students and I when we were waiting on line at a trendy Hollywood nightclub.
Since you’re able to speak about the obvious while you’re waiting on line, how silly is it to wait to get inside a loud club before you start talking to people? Whatever your approach is, when you speak to someone while you’re on line you can always state it with humor. You can always say something like:
“Aren’t we getting too old to hang out on line to get into a crowded nightclub? This is the best conversation we’re going to have all night. If we met in there, I’d have to scream in your ear.”
It doesn’t matter what you say. It’s stating the obvious.
I also told my students that if you like someone you meet on line, just close them with this:
Man: “Let’s exchange numbers. If the loud music gets on your nerves, text me and I’ll let you know where we’re at.”
What you’re doing here is playing the odds. Most women when they go to a nightclub think they’re going to have fun. After about an hour in the nightclub, however, most of them tend to get annoyed. So after about an hour and a half, what you do is text her.
You: “Are you ready to continue our conversation? I enjoyed speaking with you on line about [fill in the topic you were discussing].”
That’s it! Short. To the point. All my students did this, and it worked.
It’s called being different. It’s called seizing the moment.
In addition, when you send this text at this time, you’re most likely going to be texting her when she’s at her breaking point. She’ll remember what a great conversation she had with you while hanging out on line. She’ll already have fended off a slew of drunken horny men who had no rap. So what you’re doing is rescuing her from another 90 minutes of thump-thump music and drunken horny men.
It’s all about being different and taking chances. So the next time when someone asks you if you’ve tried online dating, you’re answer is going to be: “Not on the Internet . . . but on line at a club.”
This weekend, go hang out outside a bar . . . and don’t go inside. You’ll have far less competition and have far better conversations than you would have if you went in the place. Oh and by the way, you don’t need a cheesy picture for this form of “on line” dating.
This “on line” dating also goes for all the “on lines” in your life. This is not just for bars . . . this goes for any line on which you find yourself waiting. Welcome to David Wygant’s world of “on line” dating! Welcome to the www of your life.
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Author: For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives Learn more from David Wygant at his website.
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