As little as possible, is the answer. At least about yourself. Guys are notorious for blabbing on-and-on about themselves when out for the first time with a girl. Girls have different brains than we do and follow different cues; talking about your job may seem interesting, and the part about you being “employed” is, but frankly, women don’t give a shit about most anything a guy does, except his ability to pay for her and how he fucks her.
Just have cash to settle the bill and cab fare (discussed later) and let her know you do something during the day, preferably a “job”. The focus of the conversation should be on her for 3 reasons:
- It keeps you enigmatic and mysterious
- Women love to talk. It’s how they get comfortable.
- She will reveal whether or not you can fuck her in the next 2 hours.
Given women’s ability to romanticize any situation and fantasize about men and relationships (who watches Soap Operas, eh?) what you don’t tell them about yourself they will supply from their imagination. This excites them and they do a better job of making you into a sexy, mysterious lover than you possibly could by running your mouth. I have never had a woman who was at a loss for something to talk about, particularly concerning dating, relationships, men, sex, marriage, etc.
Anything about how the two genders relate is ideal subject matter. This serves two purposes. It gives you a reservoir from which to draw because there is abundant material here and you can fill up an hour with Q&A fairly easily. Open-ended questions work best, such as “What do you think of dating in New York?” Put the bit in their mouth and they will take the reins. It’s also great because if you direct the conversation by asking probing, but discreet questions, they will tell you if they’re promiscuous, chaste, into blowjobs, etc. Asking why their last relationship ended is always a good springboard, and comments like “having fun”, “dating”, “enjoying being single” are essentially euphemisms for unattached sex with mysterious men like you.
May 9th, 2008 at 6:59 pm
Saw you on Dr. Phil……….great job !
Women in the audience reacted as though us men were just dogs !
Well, I’ve slept with a lot of women too and not a single ONE was ever forced to do so. They wanted sex as much as I did.
The women On Dr. Phil acted as women in groups do — shocked at your behavior. Believe me, most of them alone would have been happy to take you back to their apartment for a discreet afternoon.
all the best, paul