Paul Janka: Introduction
Saturday
Dec 15, 2007
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I made a spreadsheet a couple of weeks ago, because I was curious about dinners.
My buddy Jeff and I have long-since known dinner is the death-knell for getting laid, but I had never taken a statistical look at the stuff. Out of about 30 girls I could think of off the top of my head, I only had sex with 2 or so. Really shitty hit rate. Dinner is a terrible approach if you want to get laid, and I will explain later why. It’s fine in a relationship, or after you’ve had sex, or with a girlfriend, etc., but never initially, and never if your goal is to get the girl naked. On the other hand, drinks at a sexy lounge after 10pm is always the right move.
Lounges are ideal for a number of reasons, and when I look at my hit rate there, it’s significant. Of the roughly 40 girls I’ve brought to my favorite spot on the Upper East Side, about 30 have come home with me and about 25 of those have banged. That’s a much better hit rate than dinner, and yet I am always amazed to walk down the street on a given night, especially Friday night, and see all these eager guys sitting across from a smirking woman. The usual end game there, in my experience, is a fat bill, a bloated stomach, some yawns and a peck on the cheek, with the guy standing foolishly by as the girl steps into a cab waving good-bye. Home to porno.
Why? Because women know how to play the game better than men do. Think about all the time they spend reading dating and relationship magazines, and books – you think they don’t know more about the playing field than men? Come on. The idea for this book has been on my mind for some time, and grew directly out of my experience hustling in New York. I wouldn’t call my game dating, really, because often I just have a single goal. I often meet women I like, and it may develop into something akin to dating, but I still (at 30) enjoy the hustle.
A girl I used to sleep with thought it would be fun to write a relationship and dating book with me but that never got off the ground; another girl (whom I’ve slept with) asked me and some other bachelor friends to write an essay or short piece on bachelorhood in New York. I don’t know if they got around to it; I didn’t. But I’ve always been interesting in gender politics and the battle of the sexes and how to get laid, etc. I come from a divorced home, and was raised mostly by my mother. We are very close and I’m sure that contributed to my fascination with and understanding of women.
Anyhow, I’ve always thought it was interesting but never got around to writing anything. Recently, however, several friends have encouraged me to write a book about getting laid, because I do it well, and it seems to be the one thing that holds my interest, and to which I devote considerable time and effort. They say write what you know. I know how to get laid in Gotham on the cheap.
What I write here is what I’ve found to work and what I do in my own life. None of this material is hypothetical. I just had sex with my 100th women; I should have made a t-shirt for her. I keep a spreadsheet of these girls, just as a record, with an “X” if they let me bang them in the ass. I’m 30, and most of these women have been screwed since I moved to NYC 3 years ago – about 70 of them. That’s more than 20 girls a year, and I had a girlfriend for a spell. Also, although there are some rough ones in there, most of the girls are good-looking (7’s or 8’s) and several are 9’s and 10’s, including 3 super-hot models.
And I don’t have any money.
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Author: Paul Janka first came to our attention after an article in the New York Post. The article was fairly typical of those written by journalists finding effective male dating advice for the first time - one-sided, incredulous, and femi-nazi. Paul Janka had written dating advice that upset the women who read it - probably a good start. 
Comments
Mike
May 8th, 2008 at 2:56 am
Good stuff, I love paul’s system. I just saw him on Dr. Phil today. He handled the attention well. He’s also got another book at attractionformula.com
PUAMike
Ester
June 14th, 2008 at 3:54 am
Paul, what I like about you is that you understand how to not really care about losing the girls. In my experiences this makes perfect sense. Peace,lvoe and succe Ss
Rake Voltaire
August 12th, 2008 at 12:12 am
I admire your game.
I like your method of directness, your understanding that its a
numbers game, and that masculine leadership in the form
of assertive closing are the best and direct path.
sandy
September 1st, 2008 at 4:57 pm
I met Paul at the seminar in NYC.
It was unbelievable.His non community mindset and lifestyle system in PU is unique. He has field tested everything himself direct from the source, he is a smart and yet humble guy wants to help and share his knowledge.
I feel very fortunate to learn his secrets at the seminar.
He touched on from his failures to success and even realationship management with the women you want to keep seriously in your life.
THis is something that Ive NEVER HEARD or READ before.AWESOME!
The Q&A was surreal unstounding of his honest knowledge without BS .
This guy is the real deal and probably gets laid more than average PUA.
It was a mindfuck to see he is soo good at this without barely any effort.
Well Worth it!
Sandro
Ariel
January 29th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
I love paul’s street game.the man know how to work fast and efficient.straight to the point.fellas in new york,if there’s anything you need to learn to overcome shyness,just check out this guy’s game in the street.i recommend also checking out getlaidny.com for some more helpful information.
on line dating
March 29th, 2009 at 5:01 am
Thanks for the info, but I really like a good relationship, one woman only for one man, and no play game for love with other woman or men
Air Force
June 20th, 2009 at 3:57 pm
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Datingfreenfun
June 21st, 2009 at 6:24 am
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Chris
June 22nd, 2009 at 2:40 pm
Dinner-date the death-knell for getting laid? You must really be doing something wrong. Out of the over 50 women that I’ve dated (I am 21) about 15 of those were dinner-dates, on the 1st date. The only girls I didn’t sleep with afterwards were those who seemed to have severe psychological issues, which out of those about 15 were exactly 2. I fucked the rest of them the same date. My looks are a 7, my game is a 9 and the girls (and women, including 27, 30 and even a 36-year old) were 7s, 8s and an absolutely stunning pair of 10s. I split the bill with those 10s. Ten dollars. Holy shit batman, cant afford that?
I don’t doubt you get sex-a-plenty, Paul. You dont have that much game if you can’t fuck your dinner dates, though. In that aspect, all I can say is: You’re doing it wrong. But you probably dont care because dinner dates cost you too much money and effort. Imagine having to talk to a girl for a while, daaayumm!
For all else, props, but it’s not that big a deal when you have the looks you have, come from Harvard (girls will go OMG he’s from Harvard) and the I dont care attitude which you can have because women will just fuck you because of the looks and status. Just another guy who thinks he’s the shit when he’s actually not.
Mr Truth
October 15th, 2009 at 2:32 pm
Chris, you are a full of crap. Everything you said is full of crap.
John Jacob
November 13th, 2009 at 12:55 pm
230? That’s it? You can’t even be bothered to bang a new chick every weekend? The Janka is fucking lame. Have you tried whores? That could get you numbers up pretty quick. Just trying to help out. Should have been 1230 for as much bullshit as you talk.
Dan
January 18th, 2010 at 1:48 am
The use of the word feminazi…a good sign you’re reading some bitter women hater..
Anyways….Janka’s secret? He’s very good looking, duh. Can’t learn that one.