How To Dress According To Your Personality
Thursday
Jul 23, 2009
Here’s something really interesting. I was talking to a friend of mine tonight, and I realized that men are always looking for Candy Land. Let’s break down exactly what I mean by that.
Men are always looking for women who play certain types of roles. Certain men are attracted to women who dress a little sluttier. Certain men are attracted to women who dress more conservatively. Some men like women with tall, skinny bodies. Others like women with round, bigger bodies.
But every woman signifies Candy Land in some man’s mind, because men look at women like candy. They like to look at women, they like to stare at women, and they like to admire women. So women who understand the art of flirting, understand that in order to meet a man, they have to bring men into Candy Land. They have to dress a certain role and a certain part.
If you’re a man who likes conservative looking women, you have to dress the role. It’s really important to dress the role of the person you’re trying to attract. But that’s only part of it. If you’re dressing a certain role, you’re going to attract a certain type of person.
You also have to become that role, which means the way you dress has to reflect who you really are. If you’re trying to be a rocker dude, and you’re really not into the whole rocker scene, then wearing those clothes just because you think these kind of guys get all the action, is just not you.
You have to find out who you are first. You have to figure out who you are and what you’re all about. After you’ve done that, then you have to figure out what type of image you’re going to project, so you can figure out who you’re going to attract.
Attraction for women is just as visual as it is for men. Women will look at you and they’ll envision what you’re all about. They’ll think about who you might be. They might be trying to see what your vibe is . . . they might see how confident you are as you walk across the room, or they’ll look at you and look at the way your body moves. Women will be watching you, looking at you, and summing you up to see whether or not they want to talk to you.
So . . .
The way you dress is step 1
The way you walk is step 2
The way you project positive energy is step 3
The way you react and talk to other people is step 4
Once you’ve worked on all of this inner stuff, step 5 is walking over with authority and striking up a conversation based on something that’s of strength, i.e., based on something that’s actually happening in the moment.
If you’re a man, and you want women to notice you in Candy Land, you need to basically play a role too. You need to become the man you’ve always wanted to become . .. And you can’t do that from pick-up lines or memorizing routines. The only way to do that is to embrace who you are, be proud of who you are, and don’t play any games.
Author: For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives Learn more from David Wygant at his website.
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