Sincerity
Monday
Jun 30, 2008
Sincerity is truth.
Some say that truth needs to be embraced. I believe in the opposite. What does embrace mean? To take hold- to encage. The truth. Your true self, your true thoughts, your true desires. They need to be released. Sincerity is what gives you character- charm. It’s not so much that I am straightforward when it comes to approaching women or sex even, it’s that I truly express my emotions, my true thoughts, at all times. This is what gives me my charm.
You know, one second I’ll be this very pissed off asshole, and the next, I’ll be extremely nice. I’m not going to front and try to act like I don’t have a heart, because I too, am human. Nor am I going to kiss ass, just for a piece of it. Being too hardcore Mr. Pimpdaddy, or Mr. Perfectniceguy are both fake. And women hate fake men. They want someone real. You hear women say that they want a nice guy. And you also hear them say that they love badboys. Which is it? What they mean by this, is that they want a man who is touch with himself at all times, and not afraid to express it. Nice guys try to hide the fact they want sex and want to say something that might be considered rude. Bad boys try to
hide that they have a heart. The majority of men fall into one of the two categories (most in the nice guy category).
Example? I’ll give a couple from The Real Assanova blog. In an older story that took place at least two years ago, there were two blondes that walked into the former two story Steak N Shake on campus. These women looked like porn stars, and the place was crowded full of guys just staring and making random comments from afar. I was scared shitless to approach these women (I was still terrified of approaching then), but acting on my emotions, I went over and said ‘How are you ladies doing tonight?’. Everyone in the entire restaurant laughed, and the two women just stared at me. What happened? These two women knew that it took an enormous amount of balls to just approach them in front of everyone, and they invited me to sit down to talk to them. Stunned in disbelief, everyone shut up. The point is, if I wasn’t being sincere with myself about what I wanted, and acted on it, saying EXACTLY what was on my mind, I would have never captivated the minds of those two women. That’s what ‘just be yourself’ means. It’s you not holding back. Some say that they’re just being themselves around these women, when the truth is that they’re lying to themselves. Do they honestly, and immediately, tell that attractive woman that they think she’s attractive? No, they don’t. So, in reality, they aren’t being their true selves. Women respond to emotions, of all kinds. The men that get these women, are the men that freely express themselves, both good and bad. This is being sincere, not holding back. Not trying to be too nice, and not trying to be too hardcore. I’ll tell you right now, from experience, when you freely express all extremes of your personality, both good and bad, women fall, and they fall hard. Sincerity at all times, for better, or for worse.
A variety of emotions will give you charm if you’re being REAL, then you should never come off as too nice or too bad- yes, it feels awkward at first, but like doing anything, over time, the “butterflies (queasy gut feeling)” will eventually go away.
WOMEN RESPECT SINCERITY
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