You see that beautiful, toned women in the gym? Every guy would love to go up to that woman and start an interaction, but most guys are too nervous as they don’t know what to do.
Make Her Work For You
“I like looking as good as I can, so I go to the gym regularly, but most of all, I like spending time in the sauna afterwards,” says Adam Lyons. In this field report he gets the girl by making her invest in the interaction.
“She’s only just arrived, but now she’s agreeing to go and get dressed to give me her number, only to have to go back in! The more you make her work for it, the more interested she’ll be.”
Push, Push, Push
“Acquired confidence is situation specific, it does not generalise easily into different environments,” explains LondonSoul of Mystery Method and Lovesystems. “This is how I’ve improved since my time here: push, push, push, and act as you need to regardless of how you feel inside. That is how you grow as a person. Take risks. Feel the pain, and then relish the pleasure” Pushing yourself in this new environment will build up the confidence you require. You have to earn it by pushing yourself.
Always show up
Tyler of Real Social Dynamics talks about the importance of sticking to your habit of going to the gym if you’re going to succeed. To get used to this new environment, you have to make it part of your routine.
“It’s the same as going to the gym: even if I’ve not slept properly, or I’m busy, or I’m sick, I’ll work around it. If I’m too tired to have a good workout, I’ll still show up and push through it. If I’m too busy, then I’ll rush through it, and won’t worry about eating before or after. If I’m sick, I’ll show up and just stretch out.”
