Everyone knows the classic “kiss-close”, right? You say to the girl “Would you like to kiss me?”, and then:
- If she says yes, you kiss her
- If she says no, you say “I didn’t say you could, you just looked like you had something on your mind“
- If she says maybe, you kiss her
Some students have trouble seeing why maybe is the same as yes in this case.So we’re going to cover here what my friend Sheriff calls the “Gay Bar” Test, that you can use to tell if any behaviour a girl display is a sign of interest or not. In these situations, ask yourself: “If I was in a gay bar, and a man came up to me, and did what I’ve just done, would I do what she’s doing?”
eg: If you were in a gay bar, and a guy said: “Would you like to kiss me?”would you say anything other than NO? If you were in a gay bar and a man put your hand on his leg, would you leave it there? If you do ever go to a gay bar, one of the first things you’ll learn: if you make eye contact with guys, they’ll see it as an invitation to come and talk to you, which you probably want to avoid. Exactly the same experience women have in normal clubs. If you’re getting sustained eye contact in a club, from a chick, therefore, she’s definitely interested.
