Guys worry a lot about what to do with a girl’s number. What’s the best way to get the girl out with you again? What should you say?
Text First
Braddock of Love Systems says, “After you meet a woman, use a text message to re-initiate contact instead of a phone call. Texts don’t require much commitment. People sometimes don’t answer their phones or listen to their voicemails, but everyone reads their text messages. You don’t have to worry about her mood or her schedule when you text; if she’s not free, she’ll read it when she is. And it takes far less commitment on her part to return a text message than it does to answer the phone or return a call.”
Try Group Texting
If your phone has this feature, this is a great way to try out new text routines. Paul Janka advises “The point is that you can blanket a lot of women, and make demanding, last minute offers (ex. meet me tonight, 10pm at this lounge, in my hood, etc.) and see what the market thinks. You’ll be surprised what a woman will do to avoid sitting at home alone watching “Sex in the City” reruns and eating a tub of ice cream.
Just like a market, you’ll get a huge initial response, and then others will trickle in over the hours as latecomers get the message. There’s nothing better to get a women interested than to tell her you can’t make it anymore, that the offer’s off the table. Do it nicely, though.”
Convey value by having fun
“Always appear to be having a better, more fun and interesting time than she is”. Mr.M of The Mystery Method used text game to convert a Playmate’s number into a solid date. You can read about that here.
“I used all my regular SMS tricks to build attraction - building up a conversation, and then stopping replying, so she’d send me a few messages in a row, a couple of nice little push-away comments that work well over SMS. She asked me to come and meet her at the bar she was at. I told her to fuck off, that I was having too much fun where I was. The frame I wanted was her chasing me.”
