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	<title>Comments on: Are Your A Giver Or A Taker?</title>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 00:00:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks looser.... 
or did you mean loser?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks looser&#8230;.<br />
or did you mean loser?</p>
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		<title>By: Sebastian</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sebastian</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 16:48:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,

This is my article so thanks for your comment.

I try not to use any more acronyms in my blog sebastianthenatural.blogspot.com but lets explain these for you..

AMOG: Alpha male of the group.. Basically the dominant guy who the girls are generally attracted to. This is the only one which I still think is ok to use..

Chode: a guy who is crap with women.
Set: Group of people.
PUA: Pick up artist
DVA: You mean DHV and it means demonstrate higher value.

Yes they are mostly lame. I agree..

Point is, when it comes to the average self centred guy who is bad with women, he has so few actual opportunities to get laid that he will sabotage his and his friends chances by actively trying to assert himself over his friends because he feels it will encourage the girls to like him.. This article is explaining that it&#039;s misguided to do that and it makes him look like a looser.

Although some of my other posts could be categorised as highly manipulative and if you saw me teaching a guy how to pick up girls on a 1-2-1 you&#039;d think the process was manipulative, this article is just about how to be a good friend to guys you go out to meet girls with. There&#039;s nothing in it about manipulating girls reactions to you..

That stuff comes in other posts.. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,</p>
<p>This is my article so thanks for your comment.</p>
<p>I try not to use any more acronyms in my blog sebastianthenatural.blogspot.com but lets explain these for you..</p>
<p>AMOG: Alpha male of the group.. Basically the dominant guy who the girls are generally attracted to. This is the only one which I still think is ok to use..</p>
<p>Chode: a guy who is crap with women.<br />
Set: Group of people.<br />
PUA: Pick up artist<br />
DVA: You mean DHV and it means demonstrate higher value.</p>
<p>Yes they are mostly lame. I agree..</p>
<p>Point is, when it comes to the average self centred guy who is bad with women, he has so few actual opportunities to get laid that he will sabotage his and his friends chances by actively trying to assert himself over his friends because he feels it will encourage the girls to like him.. This article is explaining that it&#8217;s misguided to do that and it makes him look like a looser.</p>
<p>Although some of my other posts could be categorised as highly manipulative and if you saw me teaching a guy how to pick up girls on a 1-2-1 you&#8217;d think the process was manipulative, this article is just about how to be a good friend to guys you go out to meet girls with. There&#8217;s nothing in it about manipulating girls reactions to you..</p>
<p>That stuff comes in other posts.. <img src='http://www.growyourgame.com/articles/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Melissa</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2008 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, just happened to come across this website/article while surfing the net. 

Are you for real?

Is this how some men actually talk, think and behave?

(And they say women are manipulative!!!!)

Most importantly... do the men you are writing for actually understand the multitude of acronyms you are using? Maybe you could provide a handy referral guide for those who have no idea (but are slightly amused and appalled) about what an AMOG, chode, &#039;set&#039;, PUA, DVA refers to! This will truly help men with their &#039;game&#039;. 

uh huh.

My god, I truly hope that the men who talk to me at bars have more respect for my intelligence then resorting to using these sorts of sport/game/battle strategies.

Where is the respect?

(And just a little FYI, there&#039;s no use blowing me off as an ugly bitter feminist who can&#039;t get laid. I&#039;m pretty hot, with brains to boot, and this kind of attitude towards women makes me CRINGE.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, just happened to come across this website/article while surfing the net. </p>
<p>Are you for real?</p>
<p>Is this how some men actually talk, think and behave?</p>
<p>(And they say women are manipulative!!!!)</p>
<p>Most importantly&#8230; do the men you are writing for actually understand the multitude of acronyms you are using? Maybe you could provide a handy referral guide for those who have no idea (but are slightly amused and appalled) about what an AMOG, chode, &#8217;set&#8217;, PUA, DVA refers to! This will truly help men with their &#8216;game&#8217;. </p>
<p>uh huh.</p>
<p>My god, I truly hope that the men who talk to me at bars have more respect for my intelligence then resorting to using these sorts of sport/game/battle strategies.</p>
<p>Where is the respect?</p>
<p>(And just a little FYI, there&#8217;s no use blowing me off as an ugly bitter feminist who can&#8217;t get laid. I&#8217;m pretty hot, with brains to boot, and this kind of attitude towards women makes me CRINGE.)</p>
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