Most Effective Attraction Switches (Ways to Attract Women)
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Apr 5, 2008
What we teach evolves with time. Originally we taught guys to convey that they had the 6 alpha characteristics. Those were:
1. Confidence, or the illusion of confidence. We could demonstrate this by approaching when we see a girl we like, having good body language, and being confident in escalating.
2. Smile. Happy guys who are getting laid smile. A survey in the 70s by John Eagen found that 98% of women prefered to be approached with a smile.
3. Sense of humour – women love men who can make them feel emotional. I don’t know anyone who can consistently get girls who can’t also make them laugh.
4. Sense of connection – a woman has to feel like there’s something happening between the two of you. Call it chemistry, call it rapport, call it understanding, but there must be a sense that there’s something more than the physical happening.
5. Well groomed. Might seem obvious, but still students turn up who need their body hair dealt with, or have basic personal hygiene issues.
6. Social proof. People, especially women, tend to stereotype. We want them to stereotype us as someone who’s surrounded by women.
Those are useful, but the Attraction Switches are more accurate and up-to-date:
1. Pre-selected by women. A hybrid of social proof, but we go to great lengths to let our target and her peer group know that we have dated women of great beauty and social status.
2. Leader of men. Show the strength of character needed to inspire others to follow you. Implies social status, as people won’t follow just anyone.
3. Protector of loved ones. Able to look after her and potential offspring.
4. Willing to emote. The ability to sher her the range of your emotions is powerful. You have to demonstrate to her very clearly that you are someone who is willing to act on their emotions. It just so happens that your emotions lead you towards being pre-selected by women, a leader of men, and a protector of loved ones.
5. Willingness to walk away. In every set there’s a point where you will have to show her that you want her, but that you’re willing to walk away if she doesn’t adhere to the standards you’ve set for her.
6. The ability to affect her emotionally. When two people interact, and one person is reacting emotionally to the other, the other has more social power. We don’t react emotionally to low-status people – so her reacting to you is her reaffirming your social value.
7. Identity. Who you are, and what you do, can and should help your game. Every identity can be conveyed in a way that will make women more attracted to you. It all comes down to how you ground it and describe it to a woman’s model of the world.
8. Lifestyle. The type of lifestyle that you’ll be bringing her in to if she ends up with you. Will she be sitting at home all the time watching you eat KFC? Or will she enter a world where she’s whisked away to a cool party with awesome people?
9. Comfort with Sexuality. Being comfortable with your own sexual desires, and her own. Women hate men who are pussies about sex.
10. Understanding. Being able to convey that you understand the way women deal with the world, and their role in society.
Not an exhaustive list, but food for thought if you’re having trouble consistently building attraction.
Author: Posted by the Grow Your Game Editor - Travis. 
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