To master game so that you can consistently get the type of relationships you want, not only with women in the general sense, but with that special woman that you want, it requires a lot of knowledge and practice to get there. To attain mastery there are five main areas you have to master. This list is a broad view of the main concepts you need to grasp.
Attraction
- the ability to attract a woman to you.
This can be learned and is, surprisingly, the easiest area to master. When a woman is around you her attraction to you is very rooted in her emotional state. Personality conveyance techniques that fall into this area include demonstration of higher value (DHV) stories and embeds, push/pull, cold reading, mini cold reads, future projections, teasing/negs, elastic bands, cocky and funny, drama lines, AMOGing, plotlines, magic, emotional talk and kino and chase cycling. Getting kino (touching) is a key part of this - not only does touching increase attraction, but it also a requirement for things escalating into something truly romantic. Chase cycling gets the girl to chase you - another critical element for solid interactions.
Value
- what your perceived value to her is.
Women actually do get very logical about the men in their lives - they do this when they are not being emotional. So even if you attract a woman in a venue, the next day she is thinking about returning your call/text - you are not around, she is not being emotional, so she thinks logically about you. She thinks about how you fit in her world, attraction aside because there are a lot of guys she is attracted to and she doesn’t continue interactions with most of them. She thinks about positive things like - would her friends approve? Are you physically good looking? Do other women like you? Do you have a lot of friends? Are you a “tribal leader”? Are you rich or famous? She is also thinking negative things (your disqualifiers) such as are you bald, old, fat, poor, dangerous or ugly? Additionally, she weights your current value against her current options (like her boyfriend). If you don’t come up on top - you are out. For maximum consistency, a man has to learn to communicate/demonstrate their real world value while he is with her - so when she does get logical you still win! Real world value has to be real (I don’t encourage any man to ever lie to a woman) and convincingly communicated - so this area can be tough for some people. If relationships were just about attraction, then mastery would be easy - but its not.
Comfort
- how safe and comfortable she feels around you.
Comfort is where you have to master being normal and really getting to know each other. Mystery discovered that you have to spend between 4 to 10 hours with a woman either in person or on the phone before sexual escalation can safely begin without causing buyer’s remorse. Techniques for this include DHV-embedded activities and talk (palmistry, magic, dancing, cooking grill cheese sandwiches, massage, sailing with friends, singing, home made movies are some of my favorites), vibing, grounding, vulnerable communication, plotlines, more future projections, sexual/emotional talk, time distortion and rapport building conversational skills.
Chillness
- Normality.
The single biggest problem that the guys that learn the skill set have as a group is coming off WEIRD. Bottom line, even if you can levitate objects and are the funniest guy on earth, none of that matters if you don’t come off completely normal, chill and non-weird. For a lot of guys this is a tough nut to crack. From an instruction point of view, we spend a lot of time on body language, physical touch, vocal tonality, normal delivery, and appearance/dress to get guys more normal. We spend an equally great amount of time to eliminate all the quirks guys collect over years of rejection that make them non-normal. The latter consists of all the reaction-seeking, the leaning-in, the nervous twitching, the jumpy personality, the strange pauses in vocal delivery and this list goes on (trust me - I’ve see it all). Most guys don’t know that they are doing any of these negative behaviors (and don’t understand why they are bad), so this is where in field instruction is an absolute must.
Love
-Sex and Relationships.
Most men don’t have anywhere near enough experience to be able to really create amazing loving and sexual relationships with women. They don’t satisfy the women that they have worked so hard to get. Are you honestly and realistically communicating to her about how she fits in your life? Do you create comfortable situations for the woman to open up sexually? Does she alter her schedule for you? Do your relationships last? Is the sex hot? Does she obsess over you? Does she want to repeat your sexual encounter over and over and over again? Do you end your relationships appropriately? This is the last area of mastery because to master it you have to have the above 4 covered -otherwise you don’t have the opportunities to get this right.
On top of all that all of this has to be sequenced right!
August 6th, 2008 at 9:01 am
its my first time hope ill like it and then respond accordingly!! thx