Guys get all sorts of funny ideas in to their heads about how to treat women, and these ideas often stop them getting the success they deserve. It’s usually a combination of bad films, and poor role-models, but what’s important is realising that these ideas are wrong! Here’s five myths you might believe that are stopping you from having the success you deserve.
First Myth: To attract women, you have to appeal to what they say the want
Been working on being sensitive, and having a good sense of humour? Been taking flowers on all your dates, and never teasing girls? Don’t want to make the first move because women don’t like ’sleazy’ men?
Trying to attract a woman by trying to live up to her standards is a sure way to turn your ego in to a sucker for punishment. Women want the tall, dark, handsome guys with loads of money, and a gigantic … pair of hands. Make sure you’ve got a six-pack and a beautiful ass too. Although if your ass isn’t up to scratch, there’s always implants, but I should warn you: your ass’ll be so sore you’ll not be able to sit comfortably for at least a month!
If you’ve been reading my newsletters and my book, you’ll know that women aren’t always attracted to what they say they want - if the were, I wouldn’t know so many short, ugly, and broke guys getting laid like rockstars …
Women are attracted to guys who create the emotion inside them of chasing, wanting, and reaching for them. My ugly Don Juan buddies don’t make the mark as ‘ideal men’, but they are able to consistently create the ‘chasing’ emotions in women - that’s the secret of their success. I call this ‘prizing’. There’s loads of really simple and powerful techniques for ‘prizing’ women - readers of my book will be familiar with leaving open loops, both challenging and qualifying, creating tension loops, and setting what I call the meta-frame.
If you’ve not read it, here’s a simple technique for ‘prizing’ women: make them try and fill YOUR quote of an ideal woman. Don’t behave like a wuss, don’t ask her how you’re doing - instead, let her know she’s losing points with you if she acts in ways you don’t like.
