Guys get all sorts of funny ideas in to their heads about how to treat women, and these ideas often stop them getting the success they deserve. It’s usually a combination of bad films, and poor role-models, but what’s important is realising that these ideas are wrong! Here’s five myths you might believe that are stopping you from having the success you deserve.
Third Myth: You have to pretend to like things they like
This really couldn’t be further from the truth - it’s the result of badly written dating advice books for men by lonely, middle-aged house wives, and suggesting you develop a lapdog personality. Women are attract to real men, not boys who run around after them blindly.
Let’s take an example. Say you’re dating this chick who likes crap music - Pink, for example. You hate this stuff, and would prefer to listen to your own nails being pulled out than that shit. What do you do? Pretend Pink’s a talented performing artist, OR just tell her that you don’t like her.
A willingness to disagree with women can result in their finding you attractive - a guy who’s not afraid to say what he really thinks. Of course, there are a few exceptions - there are some activities that the culture around us deems as having a great social value - perhaps you prefer playing video games to doing these - but there are social consequences if you don’t. If you’ve read my ebook, you know EXACTLY which I mean!
I’m also not suggesting that you ignore and refuse to indulge in all of a woman’s tastes and interests that you don’t particularly share - that’s what weird control freaks do, and you don’t want to become a boring and unhappy person. If you don’t break out of your own interest zone from time to time, you’ll stunt your growth as a person - diverging out is obviously a great thing!
But here’s the thing - when you fake liking something to get someone to like you, you’re giving away your power. You’re saying their acceptance of you is more important to you than what you like - and that’s one of the most unattractive things you can do!
