Have you ever seen Bill Clinton work a room? Google him and find some videos. Bill Clinton embraces everyone in his path. He radiates an energy that has people lining up just to talk to him. He is completely present in each interaction and charms every person he talks to. That’s his job. Now how does Clinton relate to the dating world?
People are constantly evaluating social value. Women depend on their ability to determine social value to seek out good mates. Evolution, monkeys, etc. Women are attracted to the power that Bill Clinton displays when he works a room. The non-verbals he radiates communicate all the right things about the guy. But he doesn’t get the power from just his body language. His real power is from the reactions that people have to him.
To get the positive reactions Clinton gets you have to be present with everyone you meet. Whenever someone crosses your path, you have to give them the best 30 seconds of conversation they’ve had that day. You need to make them feel special. If you can do that, you will instantly be attractive to people. In fact, you’ll be more than attractive- you’ll be irresistible.
To create this attraction you have to study how to build attraction in a room. Most men have a narrow vision of attraction and focus only on their target, but there is a whole different game to be played. Every interaction in a room can build your attraction before you even meet the girl you actually want.
Since high school women have wanted the men that everybody else wants. So if you want to be attractive like that man, you need to learn to become that man. Practise speaking and more importantly listening to people around you. The people who truly listen are the ones that truly connect. Most men don’t listen and so when they walk away from a woman, another woman will watch this encounter and see the lack of connection on the other woman’s face. When you later approach the second woman, she will have already lost attraction to you. So practise giving your best 30 seconds to everyone you meet. Then practise giving 45 seconds.
This power of connecting with people in the room will shift the dynamic from you approaching people to people wanting to approach you.
There are many opportunities to practise this, so you have no excuses. Get to know the person who serves you coffee at Starbucks, of the person who scans your food at the grocery store.
By building this connection, people will wonder what’s so special about you, because they won’t have the same connection with the barista or store clerk.
You’re using the power of Clinton to create your own hype. Create excitement whenever you’re around. By listening to people you will actually have something to talk about next time you see people.
By mastering listening to people. gathering information and giving them the best 30 seconds of their day, you will then be able to bring others into these conversations. You’ll be bringing women into your own attractive universe that you’ve created.
