Lots of guys ask me about picking up girls during the day, so I thought I’d write up some details of the last girl I picked up with day game.
I’m sat with two friends in a park, and I see this cute dark-haired chick. She’s reading, and pulls out a pen and starts writing on the book. Stop, think: she’s got to be a student, right?
But that’s all the stopping to think I do - I go right over to start talking to her:
Adam: Hey, sorry to bother you, but I’m curious - you’re a student, right? [Building comfort]
Her: Sure. I study English.
Adam: Cool! You’re pretty good - much better than my Italian anyway!
Her: Really?
Adam: Yep. Bella ragazzi.
Her: Thank-you!
Adam: What for?
Her: For your nice words
Adam: Hey, I’ve got no idea what I just said. My friend said to say it, but also to add ‘bella cuolo’ … [Breaking rapport - you'll see why...]
Her: Your friend is mean! It means “beautiful lady” but the other part means “nice ass”
Adam: Oh, that’s funny! So typical of her …
Her: You’re English? [She's starting to show an interest here]
Adam: Born and raised in the East-End of London. I’ve always wanted to see Venice - is that where you’re from?
Her: No, I’m from Sardinia. Do you know where that is?
Adam: Of course! [No idea, but in for a penny, in for a pound ...]
Her: It’s an island …
Adam: I knew that. Me and my buddy are just chilling out in the park. Do you have many friends here? [Starting to make her qualify herself to me]
Her: Sadly most of them are back in Italy
Adam: Well you should come and join us. Come on. [Leading, and assuming attraction]
Her: OK then
So she hung out with me and my friends, who are cool people - can’t overestimate the benefits of having great friends. We had a play fight, threw grass at each other, piggy back ride - we concentrated on having fun, rather than anything too serious.
As we left the park, I grabbed her by the waist, and put her arm in mine, and kissed her on both cheeks. I kissed her forehead too, which is a nice piece of suspense-building escalation. We’re seeing each other again in a few days time!
August 18th, 2008 at 7:34 am
Good job!
However, I wonder what it was *exactly* that made you score with this girl. I can’t see anything triggering attraction to you or anything in this dialog. For all I know this could have also very well gone like this:
Adam: Hey, sorry to bother you, but I’m curious - you’re a student, right?
[Building comfort]
Her: Yes!?
Adam: Cool! You’re pretty good - much better than my Italian anyway!
[speaking the obvious]
Her: Really? Who would have guessed?!
[shit test]
Adam: Yep. Bella ragazzi.
[Dancing monkey. - Ragazzi means friendS, people, guyS PLURAL! not girl or lady...]
Her: ? [raise eyebrow]
Adam: Hey, I’ve got no idea what I just said. My friend said to say it, but also to add ‘bella cuolo’ … [Breaking rapport - you'll see why...]
[DLVing and digging your hole deeper and deeper]
Her: Sorry, I really have to finish this thing I’m working on here…
[and you are out]
However, since you got the girl on an instant date, there must have been something else that’s missing in this post. Somehing why she felt attracted to you in the first place. Hey, maybe it is just the imense confidence you radiate when approaching a girl with direct game. But tell it in your post or some poor AFC will try your trick and get blown out very similar to my alternative dialog above…