A smart guy just assumes that his logic MUST be “right”… so he just keeps on thinking harder and harder about it.

But when success doesn’t happen, it really starts to become a burden.

When you get a girl’s number and you’re picking up the phone to call and “ask her out”, do you get freaked out?

Do you start planning word for word exactly what you’re going to say, how you’re going to say it, how to deal with her rejecting you should it happen… etc.?

It’s a market, and there are plenty of girls for everyone. She may look fit, sexy and sophisticated, but after you’ve banged her and she’s naked, with mascara running down her face and she’s trying to stuff her thighs into a pair of too small jeans at 2am, you’ll realize she’s just another person trying to get by. Don’t be intimidated!

Pick-up girls midweek in the middle of the day while they are walking around. Trying to get a girls number (or worse, trying to bang her) on a Saturday night at a crowded bar is a loser’s gamble. Meet girls one-on-one during the week, when there’s likely to be a lull in even the most popular girl’s social calendar.

You are never “bothering” a girl by hitting on her. Remember that it’s your duty as a man to engage the opposite sex and initiate contact. Don’t get into thinking you’re being intrusive, she will let you know.

Be quick, decisive, and get out of there! A quick, reusable system for getting their number.

Quick tips on looking good - different styles, and a piece of advice on keeping your breath sharp.

Fantastic write-up of how to get in contact for the first time - avoiding phone calls and testing the market.

If a girl eats a big pasta dish with garlic and seafood, and then has dessert, and coffee and gets completely stuffed and is conscious of her strong food breath, you really think she’s going to let you undress her? Doesn’t she have to take a mean shit? Or fart? Sounds gross, but think about it. This is the most unlikely condition in which she’ll put out.

Why a lounge is hands-down the best venue - and how to avoid out-pricing yourself on drinks or getting too drunk.

How to tap in to a store of conversation - but not your own. Some great advice.

Until you’ve had sex with a woman, time is against you; once you’ve been with her, it’s your ally. Closely aligned with the notion of the romantic is the feeling of urgency. For some reason, things moving quickly are more romantically compelling than a drawn-out, methodical courtship. From first meeting, to planning the drink, to meeting at the lounge, and now, to the first physicality, timing is crucial.

Not being creepy with touch, and when to make the move home. Some really useful practical advice.

I have the smallest apartment in Manhattan. Literally. And yet, I screw more and better looking girls than all my friends in the City, many who have infinitely nicer digs.

If you were to eavesdrop on a group of attractive, single women talking over dinner or drinks, the topic will inevitably turn to men.

And in most cases, it will eventually turn into a massive ranting session about how hard it is these days to find a good man to date…

He confessed that he was madly in love with her, and that he would do absolutely anything just to be with her for the rest of his life.
She looked at him with heartfelt compassion in her eyes and said “Thank you… I really like you… but I don’t want to mess up our friendship… you’re too important to me…”.

“I am so into you that I’m nervous - in fact, I’m already imagining you as my potential next girlfriend or wife, or at least a one-night stand.”